This afternoon I did a little google search for quotes on happiness. This search was mainly due to wanting to find a quote about the inability for an individual to be happy if s/he is basing happiness on another person. This is something that I think is especially important in a functional marriage--that each partner within the couple needs to have internal contentment and not expect his or her happiness to be derived solely by the presence of the other. I definitely believe that our partners influence our happiness, but it is our own individual perceptions and interpretations of life that allow us to be happy. While I didn't find the exact quote I was looking for, I found a lot of other quotes that I thought were wonderful and relevant to my reason for beginning the search. So I thought that I would share some of them here. Most of these were taken from: http://www.quotegarden.com/happiness.html
If you want to be happy, be. ~Leo Tolstoy
The Constitution only guarantees the American people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself. ~Benjamin Franklin
We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have. ~Frederick Keonig
A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery while on a detour. ~Author Unknown
Just as a cautious businessman avoids investing all his capital in one concern, so wisdom would probably admonish us also not to anticipate all our happiness from one quarter alone. ~Sigmund Freud
The world is full of people looking for spectacular happiness while they snub contentment. ~Doug Larson
Happiness is a matter of one's most ordinary and everyday mode of consciousness being busy and lively and unconcerned with self. ~Iris Murdoch
Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. ~Joseph Addison
To be obliged to beg our daily happiness from others bespeaks a more lamentable poverty than that of him who begs his daily bread. ~Charles Caleb Colton
The essence of philosophy is that a man should so live that his happiness shall depend as little as possible on external things. ~Epictetus
Some pursue happiness, others create it. ~Author Unknown
You need to learn to be happy by nature, because you'll seldom have the chance to be happy by circumstance. ~Lavetta Sue Wegman
2 comments:
I love that Quote Garden. I use it often!
Love this blog entry! I really enjoy finding quotes -- there's some great stuff out there. :) I totally agree with you that people need to find their happiness internally. You can't depend on other people because you will at some point be very disappointed. People change and make mistakes so it's not wise to expect them to make you happy. Needless to say- we definitely agree on this point. haha
Hugs hugs hugs!
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